"There are moments in our lives when we find ourselves at crossroads, afraid, confused, without a road map. The choices we make in those moments can define the rest of our days. Of course, when faced with the unknown, most of us prefer to turn around and go back. But once in a while, people push on to something better,something found just beyond the pain of going it alone, and just beyond the the pain of going it alone, and just beyond the bravery and courage it takes to let someone in, or to give someone a second chance. Something beyond the quiet persistence of a dream. Because it's only when you're tested that you truly discover who you are. And it's only when you're tested that you discover who you can be. The person you want to be does exist, somewhere on the other side of hard work and faith and belief, beyond heartache and fear of what lies ahead."

--> decision lies in our hand; we are the one in control over our emotions.
there's a saying that goes, "every action has its own consquence."
our action = our choice = how you go about handle certain things.
for example, to retreat? to collaborate? during a conflict with a friend?

--> everyone is tested, in order to release the goodness in us.
often than not, we learnt from small, medium, huge encounters of our life.
not only pick up and be corrected from our very own mistake made, but also learning from other's mistake.
learnt = not commiting the same mistake again.

we have to fight our own battle with our own hand.
especially those inner thoughts and feeling and emotions and etc.
fight a good fight and bid good-bye to the battle.
dealt with it and never again let it hinder you again!!!
just like when you're an adult, you can't be saying that i'm a child.

[[ if you want rainbow, sometimes you have to deal with the rain. ]]

I quoted this whole entry from BaoLing again. A very well-said entry....
Thanks BaoLing for letting me quote. =)